Man’s drama

Here’s the thing, there’s a tinder match guy who I dated 3 times in Oct., so everybody shared their stories, and like every other tinder stories of mine he flied back to where he was after that. However he’s still in contact, and things are a bit different with him cuz he needs to come back every once in a while. So I stayed in touch, even shared a little bit of my life. At first he said he will be back in November, asked me to not to see anyone before that, I found it weird, I acted tamed but of course I’m still meeting people whenever I can. He said he had crush on me, hopes that he meant more than a hookup to me (hinting that I should see him as a boyfriend to be) and is considering me as future girlfriend. I know he got pretty strong ego but it never really gets on my nerve. What’s skeptical is he read and replies msg slow, not really what you’ll do to a “people who you think attractive." Anyway around 2-3 weeks ago he said he got something to confess, sent 2-3 photos of a posh lady saying it’s his girlfriend, saying she won some beauty contests in Hanoi and this and that. I know he said this to get me jealous and I couldn’t care less about it so I said “if she has a brother he will be gorgeous too". OK here’s the thing, we are not each other’s anyone so he does whatever he wants to, but he keeps saying that he will feel jealous if I am seeing someone and have emotional connection to him.  Sooooo, um, a girlfriend?! I wouldn’t go into things like this, I am never a “team player" in the relationship, I only care about one, ok two, me and my guy. So when he was explaining how delicate her skin is (ewwww) but it’s just for sex and she can’t even speak English and is not learning hard either I’m the one he’s considering to have a meaningful relationship with I’m smart and sexy and I’m his type blah, I was literally reading thinking about what movie I wanted to watch later when he’s talking about it during the call. So anyway not any of those irritates me really, I found him fun but also had the idea that he’s a douche, he knew girls come on to him cuz he’s wealthy but doesn’t want to change and will never change cuz he thinks the problems are on them only. So he finally decided that he will be be back here right after Christmas, he asked me to check hotel for him, and there was obscured discussion about we are going to spend time together for a trip, but never going specific where and when. A friend of mine asked me if I want to meet on a day which is during the time he’s here. I was thinking he didn’t really tell me when he want to be with me, but since he’s from far I still let him have the priority of my time. So he’s coming in the week, I found him posted a picture of him and the girl in his car, smiling and looking happy for the ride. He knew I’ll see that, and by seeing how happy the girl is I feel terribly bad. If he could say something indicating the girl is nothing but fresh meat, he could have said something really bad (and mean to women as well) to her about me. So um, we’re in his pool now?! Not surprisingly, soon after he posted it, he sent me a msg with some random topic, I know he just want to make sure I see the picture. “Hey, feeling jealous? I can get a girl like this!" Fu_k it, I’m out. I deleted him and that was the only connection between us so he’s completely bye bye in my life. We all know there’s a typical impression about women’s drama, yes yes we all know, there are tons of guys putting lines on tinder like “not looking for drama." BUT THIS IS A MALE VERSION OF DRAMA and it’s not any cleverer AT ALL! To have girls fighting over his attention and feels satisfied and confident about it?! No no no not my game, if he’s wasting my time there’s only one thing I can do cuz I value my time very much. CUT HIM OUT.